You Are Not Your Career

This might be controversial, but…

You are not your career.

I used to make decisions to achieve the career goals I thought I should be achieving. I was chasing a certain definition of success, a definition I had dreamt up in my own head. I was successful, but still deeply unhappy. I could not understand why.

Then it struck me.

You are not your career. Your career is you.

Respond to those emails instead of a lunch break? Yes. 80 hour workweeks? Yes. Skipping time with the kids to close a deal? Yes.

Here I was trying to budget my time to advance my career when all I had to do was allow my career to budget my time.  I made the change; I am no longer my career.

So stop defining yourself by what you do. Allow your career to define you.

 

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